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　　很多考研的朋友在QQ上給我留言，問(wèn)我如何才能取得這場(chǎng)命運(yùn)之戰(zhàn)的勝利。其實(shí)，這個(gè)問(wèn)題我也思索了很久，自覺(jué)有點(diǎn)心得。現(xiàn)整理如下，希望能夠給各位師弟師妹一點(diǎn)小小的幫助。（本文參考了卡耐基的成功學(xué)的部分理論）
 
　　1.Putting definiteness of purpose to work ( 將明確的目標(biāo)運(yùn)用于工作）
   
　　The first step from poverty to riches is the most difficult.The key is to realize that all the riches and all the material goods that you acquire through your own efforts begin with your having a clear,concise picture of what you seek.When that picture grows to be an obsession with you,you will find that your every action leads you toward its acquisition.
  
　　從貧窮到富有，第一步是比較困難的。其中的關(guān)鍵，在于你必須了解所有的財(cái)富和物質(zhì)的獲得，都必須先建立清晰且明確的目標(biāo)；當(dāng)目標(biāo)的追求變成一種執(zhí)著時(shí)，你就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，你所有的行動(dòng)都會(huì)帶領(lǐng)你朝著這個(gè)目標(biāo)邁進(jìn)。
 
　　2.Positive mental attitude(積極心態(tài)）
 
　　A positive mental attitude is the right mental attitude in any given situation and is most often composed of the plus characteristics symbolized by such words as" faith","integrity","hope","optimism","courage","initiative","generosity","tolerance","tact","kindness",and" good common sense".
   
　　積極的心態(tài)，是無(wú)論在任何情況下，都應(yīng)具備的正確的心態(tài)。這種心態(tài)是由“正面”的性格因素所構(gòu)成的，諸如“信心”，“正直”，“希望”，“樂(lè)觀(guān)“，”勇氣”，“進(jìn)取心“，”慷慨”，“耐性”，“機(jī)智”，“親切”以及“豐富的常識(shí)”。
  
　　3. Tact（機(jī)智）
  
　　There is a right moment and a wrong moment for everything .Tact is the habit of doing and saying the right thing at the right moment.Tact is so closely related to coursety that you  cannot practice one without the other.It is an invaluable skill,just as noticeable for its absence as for its presence.
 
　　做任何事情都有適當(dāng)和不適當(dāng)?shù)臅r(shí)機(jī)，機(jī)智就是要在適當(dāng)?shù)臅r(shí)機(jī)做適當(dāng)?shù)氖虑楹驼f(shuō)適當(dāng)?shù)脑?huà)。機(jī)智和禮節(jié)有很密切的關(guān)系，一個(gè)人不可能只具備其中一種而缺少另一種特質(zhì)，機(jī)智是一項(xiàng)無(wú)價(jià)的處世技巧，表現(xiàn)機(jī)智和缺乏機(jī)智，同樣會(huì)讓人看得見(jiàn)。
 
　　4.Demonstrating the power of your faith(戰(zhàn)線(xiàn)信心的力量）
  
　　5.Walk extra mile(多付出一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)）.
 
　　6.Controlling your emotions(控制你的情緒）

　　祝福各位師弟師妹心想事成，夢(mèng)想成真。