Two women were chating in a room，

    One asked， "How is everthing going with your son？"

    "Oh，don't‘ even mention it，  what a huge misfortune�。�" The woman sighed ：

    "He is poor enough， and marry a extraordinary lazy daughter-in-law.She doesn‘t cook，not clean the room，not look after the children except sleep all the time.It was my son who bring breakfast to her bed.

    "How about your dauther？"

    "She might be lucky." Woman smiled，

    "He married a good husband who doesn‘t  allow him to do  the housework，and 　　handle everything all alone.The housework include cooking，washing ，cleaning and looking after the children.What’s more， he brought the breakfast to my daughter everyday.

    Consider

    same situation， but when we look at from my perspective， it will have a different mentality.stand to look at other people's position， or at each other's point of view to think about a lot of things not the case，You can have a greater tolerance， will have more love.accommodate only have love， only love do not accommodate， and all are in vain.

    有二個(gè)婦人在聊天，

    其中一個(gè)問道「你兒子還好吧？」

    「別提了，真是不幸哦！！」這個(gè)婦人嘆息道：

    「他實(shí)在夠可憐，娶個(gè)媳婦懶的要命，不燒飯、不掃地、

    不洗衣服、不帶孩子，整天就是睡覺，我兒子還要端早餐到她的床上呢！！」

    「那女兒呢？」

    「那她可就好命了�！箣D人滿臉笑容

    「他嫁了一個(gè)不錯(cuò)的丈夫，不讓他做家事，全部都由先生一手包辦，

    煮飯、洗衣、掃地、帶孩子，而且每天早上還端早點(diǎn)到床上給她吃呢！」

    試想

    同樣的狀況，但是當(dāng)我們從我的角度去看時(shí)，就會(huì)產(chǎn)生不同的心態(tài)。站在別人的立場(chǎng)看一看，或在對(duì)方的角度想一想，很多事就不一樣了，你可以有更大的包容，也會(huì)有更多的愛。有包容才有愛，只有愛不懂包容，一切皆枉然。