Taking an interest in her life， job or anything else that she likes to talk about is a must for first date conversations. You can do that by asking questions like， “How did your job/hobby/interest start？”

    在初次約會(huì)的時(shí)候，聊聊她的生活、工作之類她樂(lè)意聊的話題是必須的。你可以用“你的工作、愛(ài)好、興趣是怎么開(kāi)始的呀？”作為開(kāi)頭。

    Contrary to popular opinion， women don‘t only want to talk about themselves； they also want to see what’s going on with you. When it comes to dreams， expressing yours will make her gain some interesting insight into you， and she‘ll love that you can open up to her.與大家通常所想的不同，女人在約會(huì)的時(shí)候不僅僅是想聊聊自己的問(wèn)題；她們也會(huì)想要了解你。不要吝嗇于談?wù)勀愕膲?mèng)想，這會(huì)讓她對(duì)你有更深一層的了解，她會(huì)很高興看到你對(duì)她敞開(kāi)心扉的。

    Throwing in a word about your friend and something interesting he said or did will show your date that you have some awesome mates. Just make sure you don‘t fall into the trap of going on and on about your friends to the point where you are taking focus away from your date.跟她聊聊你朋友的事情，或者你朋友說(shuō)的或者做的好玩的事會(huì)讓你的約會(huì)對(duì)象覺(jué)得你朋友很多。但是千萬(wàn)不要總跟她聊你朋友的事，這會(huì)讓她覺(jué)得你的注意力都沒(méi)放在她的身上。

    The sound of your laughter is always something she wants to hear. It shows her that she has a great sense of humor and you find her delightful. Just try not to overdo it， and always keep it genuine.初次約會(huì)的時(shí)候不要介意多笑一笑。這會(huì)讓她感覺(jué)到你覺(jué)得她很可愛(ài)。但是也不要做得太過(guò)，最重要的是要表現(xiàn)出你的真誠(chéng)

    Sometimes the best way to get to know someone is through personal anecdotes. So go on and share an experience that stands out as a great memory.有時(shí)候了解一個(gè)人的最佳方式就是了解他的一些小趣聞。所以不要害怕跟她分享讓你記憶深刻的經(jīng)歷哦。

    By the end of the first date， both parties need to know if the other had a fun time or not. If you had a good time with her， then tell her. She will really appreciate hearing it.約會(huì)結(jié)束時(shí)，雙方都想知道對(duì)方在此次約會(huì)中是否開(kāi)心。如果和她約會(huì)很快樂(lè)，那么千萬(wàn)不要害怕告訴她哦。聽(tīng)見(jiàn)你這么說(shuō)她會(huì)很高興的。

    Of course you don‘t know if she had a fun time， but you can set a platform for a future date， mention a great sushi bar or Italian restaurant you’ve dined at recently， and ask her if she‘s been there.（plus， it’s an easy way to bring up other topics）。

    你不知道此次約會(huì)她是否滿意，不過(guò)也別忘了為下一次約會(huì)做鋪墊，你可以說(shuō)說(shuō)你最近去過(guò)的某個(gè)不錯(cuò)的壽司店或者意大利餐廳，問(wèn)問(wèn)她有沒(méi)有去過(guò)那里。（另外這也是開(kāi)啟新話題的不錯(cuò)方式哦~）

    It‘s good to let her know a bit more about yourself. She’ll love to hear about your interests and hobbies. Divulging information about yourself enables you both to see if you‘re on the same wavelength. Plus， she’ll love that you‘re offering some info about yourself without her having to ask all the questions.讓她多了解你一些沒(méi)什么不好。她會(huì)很樂(lè)意了解你的興趣愛(ài)好。透露一些關(guān)于你的信息會(huì)讓你們互相之間了解某些話題上是否有同感。另外她肯定也愿意看到你主動(dòng)談?wù)勛约旱氖虑�，而不是所有事情都要她親口來(lái)問(wèn)。

    There‘s nothing wrong with going Dutch on a first date， but it’s really the gentlemanly thing to pick up the bill for her. When she reaches into her purse， tell her that you have it covered. She‘ll be impressed that you took the effort for her and your chivalry will increase your chances of a second date.初次約會(huì)AA制也沒(méi)什么問(wèn)題，但是主動(dòng)為她買單會(huì)體現(xiàn)出你紳士的一面。當(dāng)她準(zhǔn)備掏錢的時(shí)候告訴她你已經(jīng)幫她付過(guò)帳了。你的行為會(huì)給她留下個(gè)好印象并增加促成下次約會(huì)的可能性哦。